
I’m going to try something different for this season of Mad Men and do a post about the most recent episode on the following Monday. I’ll try to do as few spoilers as possibe, but I can’t promise you that my posts will be completely spoiler free.
I’m hoping the rest of the Mad Men heads who read my blog will chime in on the comment section! Don’t be shy.
From Basket of Kisses:
Mark called Peggy old-fashioned. He thinks she’s a virgin. She’s not. Peggy hasn’t just had one bad affair gone very, very wrong, but she’s had dirty sex with an older man in broad daylight. It stung her to be called old-fashioned. The lie she’s telling him stung her, maybe some sadness for the old-fashioned girl she used to be, and maybe anger at Mark for needing her to be something she just ain’t.
I know many people will be talking about the return of Glenn or about Don sleeping with his secretary, but I want to focus on Peggy for a minute. We see her lie to Mark and tell him that she’s a virgin, which if you’ve been watching since season 1 we know couldn’t be farther from the truth. By now, we’ve seen Peggy have an affair with a married coworker (Pete), have raunchy sex with Duck, and have what could only be described as a booty call with one other guy. So why would she lie about being a virgin to Mark, and why would Mark so willingly believe it?
I think it comes down to the sexual double standard that many women faced back then, and still do today. I think Peggy told Mark that she was a virgin not only to further hide the fact that she had another man’s baby, but also to perpetuate the virgin/whore expectations that were thrown at women in the 1960s. In some ways, I suspect Mark expected Peggy to be a virgin, even though it isn’t expected that Mark himself is a virgin.
Furthermore, I too was thrown when Mark called Peggy old-fashioned–it just let us know that he doesn’t have a clue about who he’s dating. It seems to me that he should have known just by her occupation alone that Peggy was more than just another girl next door, but somehow he seems to want to fit her into a mold that she simply isn’t willing or able to fit at this point.
And Betty.
It’s so interesting to see how far we’ve come in terms of our attitudes toward Betty. I went from sympathizing with and cheering for her in Season 1 to hating her in Season 2. Now that she’s with Harry she seems to resent Sally even more, which makes me in turn dislike her even more–and I’m pretty sure that’s what Matt Weiner was hoping would happen. I’m not convinced that Henry and Betty will last, and I’m not sure I want to be convinced that Betty and Don are really over as we see Don further unravel without her.
And to think this is only Episode 2.

4 responses to “Mad Men Monday”
Renee
August 4th, 2010 at 02:18
I guess I wasn’t bothered much by Peggy’s lie about virginity as much as I was disturbed with Mark asking her if she felt different after the act. Why didn’t he ask her if she felt like a real woman while he was at it.
elledub08
August 11th, 2010 at 03:16
my guess is that Mark was feelin himself when he said that–typical guy lol
adriannerussell
August 10th, 2010 at 03:46
Peggy is consistenly one of the most interesting thing about this show. I’ve really enjoyed watching the changes in her character. I agree, if Mark was even the slightest bit observant, he would’ve noticed that her job was anything but “average.” Why expect her to be like the “average” woman?
elledub08
August 11th, 2010 at 03:42
I kind of think Mark wants to believe he can “change” Peggy….but naw. To remix Kanye, “one man can’t have that much POWAH” when it comes to her.