Posted by: elledub08 on: May 15, 2008
Guess who’s bizzack (c) Jay-Z and Scarface
Aight, let’s get right to it:
Some of you may have heard about this already, but Monica Conyers, the President Pro Tem of the Detroit City Council, got into a shouting match with Council woman Joann Watson and President of the City Council President Ken Cockrel. At the height of the foolishness, Conyers refers to Cockrel as “Shrek.” Leading up to that, she had blurted out,
“You’re not my daddy!You do that at home, not here. Give me some respect ’cause I’m tired of that. You may not do that at home, but you gon do it up in here.”Grow up! Control your house and you’ll know how to treat women better.”
Nevermind the fact that Cockrel was just doing his job and attempting to keep the order in the session. And yet Monica Conyers, a grown woman, deemed it necessary to attack the man personally like she was a 12 year old brat. It was probably the most embarrassing spectacle of I’ve ever seen from one of our so-called Black Leaders.
If Monica’s last name sounds familiar to you, it’s because she is the wife of Congressman John Conyers, the chair of the House Judiciary Committee. And Speaking of 12 year olds, check out this clip of 8th grader Kierra Bell questioned Conyers actions:
…out of the mouth of babes. Conyers was rendered almost speechless. You go, girl. Maybe you can take Ms. Conyer’s place one day.
[Marche Taylor] was told her custom-made dress violated the school dress code.
At that point, Taylor said she was furious. She said if she couldn’t get in, she wanted her money back.
Things got so bad that someone called the police. Officers showed up, handcuffed her and escorted her out. from KHOU
My verdict: sorry, this girl ain’t a victim.
the principal did what she had to do—uphold of standard of appropriate dress for a prom, which meant that girls would not be allowed to have their ASSets hangin out everywhere and pass it off as “cute.” (the dress wasn’t anywhere NEAR cute—but that is a different story as this is not a fashion blog
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As for the girl getting arrested–let’s be clear: the girl wasn’t being arrested for wearing the dress. She was being arrested for causing a scene when she found out she couldn’t go to her prom.
I can’t pass all the blame on the girl though. I’ve discussed this here before, and if any of you were to log on to What About Our Daughters, they would agree–parents need to teach their daughters about what is and is not age-appropriate. My mother would have looked at me crazy if I had even suggested wearing a get-up like that, and it’s because she taught me better than that.
[...] black girl blogging. wrote an interesting post today on Things of Note: The Shame of Monica Conyers | Saartjie Project | Risque Prom DressesHere’s a quick excerptMy mother would have looked at me crazy if I had even suggested wearing a get-up like that, and it’s because she taught me better than that. but enough with all that. Edwards endorsed Obama yesterday. Now put that in your pipe and smoke it…. [...]
Somehow i missed the point. Probably lost in translation
Anyway … nice blog to visit.
cheers, Pestiferous.
Conyers was right in being angry and feeling disrespectful. It is a sad day that someone is ridiculed and condemned for speaking up for themselves. When Black people condemn each other for speaking up, it is a form of mental slavery that this white patriarchy commends. Go Monica Conyers!
The whole panel of children questioning a grown woman was also shameful. Wow. We really are mental slaves and don’t even need puppet strings to beat down each other. To have a black woman speak up against a man, apparantly, according to this video montage is that she must be punished and humiliated. THAT is what is shameful.
May 15, 2008 at 3:29 pm
I’m not gon’ lie. I think some adults got carried away and ruined this young lady’s shining high school moment.
Can we try a conversation like, “Go home, and if you can’t find something that matches your date straight away, put on a not-so-little black dress, and we’ll let you in…”
?????
Is that not okay? Instead, I offer to put on some more clothes and you’re still like, “Uhuh, but no. Go home.” I would have lost my mind, too.
Instead of the adults having some tact, they acted like some jealous little women who either a) don’t have the body to wear the dress, b) don’t have a man who wants to match them in the street or c) had a horrific prom experience and want someone else to live the same.
This young lady is now going to be yet another ‘angry black woman’ already deemed a skank by local and national news sources alike. Her, her dress, her body… all exposed and for what?
When our proms went down, the ‘genie in a bottle’ look was in. All the girls had these ridiculous dresses with their mid-sections out. More so than not having the body to wear them, I thought they were tacky. Yet, to each his own.
Were they afraid some little boy was going to stick his penis up her little short skirt? Really, what was the big deal?
And, no, my child would NEVER walk out the house in that on my watch nor would I have that nothingness of a dress MADE for her special occasion. Yet, again, to each his own.